Monday, August 27, 2012

Blessing Times

I cherished each one on one time I had with my girls. I truly see them as my own daughters and it was heartbreaking to hear their stories. Make sure you scroll to the bottom to read about my miracle story!


Carol (9 yrs old) - lives with both parents and is the oldest of 4 children
her younger sister struggles with asthma
her father is a security guard and her mother doesn't work
she sleeps on a mat in a house 
her friends tease her when they play and they steal
she goes to a community school where some of the teachers bring her clothes/shoes 
she wants to be a doctor when she grows up
she feels loved by her parents and everyone at home and by God
she has trusted Jesus as her Savior
prayer requests: she doesn't become a prostitute, she finishes school and has a  good job when she finishes school


Memory (11 yrs old) - lives with both parents in a house & sleeps on a mat 
has a brother & sister
her father is sick and vomits blood, he's a business man (sells cement)
her mother has contract jobs
if they have food they eat, if they don't have they don't
she suffers from stomach and tooth pains
she goes to a community school where they feed her shima, but is kicked out if they have not paid
she wants to be a nurse when she grows up
suffers from bad dreams every night
feels loved by Auntie Katy, her parents, Americans, God
prayer requests: to have more knowledge in school, 
                                   PRAYED TO RECEIVE CHRIST!


Naomi (7 yrs old) - lives with both parents, 13? brothers & sisters (most likely some are cousins), she sleeps on the ground with a blanket
her mother hits her and she doesn't eat much
her father sometimes works as a gardener
her mother washes neighbors clothes for money
 she suffers from headaches and stomach pains
her friends make fun of her ("you are poor", "you have no clothes")
she goes to a community school where teachers cook shima and rice
she wants to be a teacher and take kids to school
she is afraid of becoming a prostitute
she feels loved by Auntie Katy & God, wants to be loved by her mother
prayer requests: PRAYED TO RECEIVE CHRIST!


Mercy (10 yrs old) - she lives with her mother, step-father & his 3 children
she has never met her father (her mother told her he is dead, but people have told her that they've seen him in the village)
she eats twice a day and sleeps on a mat
her mother is a business woman who sells fish
her step-father refuses to take her to school but takes his own (she thinks her own father would take her to school)
her friends tease her, her step-siblings tease her about having no father
she was kicked out of school because she came to Camp LIFE
she's afraid of becoming a prostitute
her mother beats her, tells her she hates her, that she has no father and treats her like a step child
                                      prayer requests: that her mother would start loving her
                                   PRAYED TO RECEIVE CHRIST!
[During Mercy's blessing time, I could not keep my tears back. Children are taught to show no emotion. In fact, the only way to stop a beating is to stop crying. As Mercy told me that her own mother treats her step-children like her own and actually tells her that she hates her own daughter the tears just rolled down that precious girls face. Why would a mother tell her own child that she hates her?! It broke my heart. I completely lost it as I prayed over this new child of God. I pray that she would know her heavenly Father's love in such a real way!]

Florence (11 yrs old) - lives with her mother and 4 siblings
her father has another wife and does not provide food for her
her younger sister (2 yrs old) suffers from malaria
her mother has no job
her uncle lives with them and provokes/mistreats her
she likes her friends
she goes to a community school where they just teach & don't give food
she wants to be a soldier when she grows up
she's scared of thieves and prostitutes
her father hits her when her parents fight
prayer requests: for her father to come home
PRAYED TO RECEIVE CHRIST!
[Florence and I instantly connected. I had a feeling that she understood me but wasn't letting me know it! After our blessing time, my partner asked her if she had any questions for me. In perfectly clear English she said, "Auntie Katy tell me about your family." Sneaky little thing! :)]

Lexina (10 yrs old) - lives with her mother & 4 children
her parents are divorced
her mother doesn't work, her uncle provides for them
she sleeps on a mat and eats twice a day
it hurts her that she doesn't have clothes
she likes her friends & likes jumping with a ball
she goes to a community school where they beat her if she makes any noise
she wants to be a teacher when she grows up
she is afraid of becoming a prostitute
it makes her sad when her mother beats her and her sister
she feels loved by Auntie Katy and Jesus
prayer requests: that she'll finish school & her mother would stop beating her    
                                      and her sister; PRAYED TO RECEIVE CHRIST!

Christine (9 yrs old) - lives with her mother & 3 siblings
her father passed away
her mother is a business woman (sells fish, vegetables)
she sleeps on a mattress
she goes to a community school but they don't give any food
she wants to be a doctor when she grows up
she is scared of becoming a thief and prostitute
she's sad she had to live without her father
she feels loved by Auntie Katy and God
prayer requests: she wants to finish school
PRAYED TO RECEIVE CHRIST!


Margaret (10 yrs old) - lives with both parents and 3 siblings
her mother doesn't work
her father is a security guard
she sleeps on a mat and eats twice a day
she struggles from coughing and leg pain
her mother doesn't let her go to school or church
she likes her friends
she wants to be a nurse when she grows up
she's afraid of becoming a prostitute & disobeying her parents (I'm guessing they beat her but she never admitted that. She had scars all over her face.)
she feels loved by Auntie Katy, Sharon, Miriam & God
prayer requests: that she can start going to school & church
                                   PRAYED TO RECEIVE CHRIST!

Rose (10 yrs old) - lives at home with both parents & 3 siblings
her father doesn't work, her mother is a maid
sleeps on a mat and eats only once a day (shima)
doesn't always have food, starving
likes her friends
wants to be a business lady when she grows up
she's scared of becoming a thief and of being raped
she's sad that her father doesn't always bring home money
her mother beats her when she makes a mistake
prayer requests: she wants to go back to school & her father to provide
PRAYED TO RECEIVE CHRIST!


Lucy (11 yrs old) - lives with her mother, 3 siblings and aunt & uncle
her father passed away, her mother is a maid
she sleeps in a bed and eats 3 times a day (tea, shima twice)
her cousin beats her youngest sister, tells her "your father is dead"
her uncle beats her
her friends make fun of her ("you are poor", "you're a coward", "we have fathers, you don't")
mother didn't pay money for school
she wants to be a teacher when she grows up
she's afraid of being a prostitute or drunkard (mother is a drunk & strangles her)
her aunt gives her rotten food and it gives her stomach pains
                                           prayer requests: wants to finish school, PRAYED TO RECEIVE CHRIST!

When I got back from Zambia I was overwhelmed when I thought of getting sponsors for all 10 of these precious girls. How could I communicate the urgent needs of these girls and find people who would be committed to provide for their schooling, food and medical needs? A friend of mine knew that this was a concern of mine and prayed that I wouldn't have to say a word about sponsoring these girls. That people would just come up to me and ask me about how to sponsor them. I thought this was a huge thing to ask, but the one thing I learned in Zambia was that God can do immeasurably more than all we ask or imagine (Ephesians 3:20).

Three days later, I had a friend text me and ask about sponsor information for my girls. I hadn't said a WORD. In fact I was getting excited because they had said girls plural. How incredible if two of my girls got sponsored! I looked up my Ambassador's website with my girls information and noticed that only 9 were showing up online and then I sent on the information in an email. Later that evening someone else told me that they would like to sponsor one of my girls. This was incredible!!

I checked my Ambassador's website again before going to sleep that night and saw that all 9 of my girls who were up on the website had been moved over to the SPONSORED column. I thought it was a mistake! I scrolled down and saw my friend's name beside ALL NINE OF MY GIRLS. And the one who wasn't online yet... she was already promised a sponsor! The Lord blew me away. It's as if He said, "Listen Katy, you really shouldn't worry about things. I'm just going to go ahead and show you what I can do." Thank you Jesus for my miracle and the sponsorship of ALL 10 of my girls.

Now, they will receive an education, three meals a day, the medical care they need and discipleship from believers in their communities. And believe it or not, because of this sponsorship their home lives should change dramatically. As twisted as it sounds, these girls will most likely be taken care of now because their parents think their daughters can take care of them later because of their education. I pray that's the case for each of these girls.

If you feel like the Lord is calling you to sponsor one of the children we met in Zambia, please let me know. The rest of my family still have kids that they need to get sponsored. It costs $40 a month plus a one time enrollment fee of $85.

Zambia (Part 4)

TUESDAY

We did rotations this morning - "snaps", blessing time, and coloring. 

My group of girls went to have "snaps" first. One of my Zambian partners was a hair dresser and she made sure all the girls had their hair fixed before we took the pictures. These are the pictures that will go on their sponsorship packets. 

Carol                                                Christine

Florence                                                 Lexina 

Lucy                                               Margaret 

Memory                                               Mercy 

Naomi                                                 Rose   

Then we moved on to blessing time. I loved this time with each of my girls. I had blessing times with Carol and Memory on Monday and was heart broken with what they shared about their home lives. On Tuesday I had my blessing time with Naomi and Mercy. More heartbreaking stories. I had held it together with the first three, but when I got to Mercy there was no holding back my tears. You can read more about my blessing time with Mercy and all of my girls HERE.

When I finished with Mercy (and had somewhat composed myself) we went to color. I saw my mom and her group of girls when we walked in. She could tell I had been crying and mouthed, "Pull it together!!" :) The girls LOVED to color! They would sit there in the middle of the dirty floor and color for hours if we let them. 


After they finished we had our lunch and then played some games while waiting for big session to start. Today we learned about the Breastplate of Righteousness and the Helmet of Salvation. Each piece protects a vital part of our body. They shared the gospel and explained that you can only put on the armor and keep it on if you have Jesus in your heart. During the skit an orphan received these pieces from the Lord. They had actual pieces of armor and the kids went crazy when they saw them! 

They played "Freedom" while I prayed over my girls. What an emotional song to pray over these girls. 

I cry freedom from the chains that bind your children
Freedom from the chains that bind our praises
Freedom from the lies of the enemy - Freedom

Freedom! Freedom! Freedom! Freedom!

I'm gonna praise a little longer than before
I'm gonna lift my hands higher than before
I'm gonna shout a little louder than before

Through You the blind will see
Through You the mute will sing
Through You the dead will rise 
Through You all hearts will praise
Through You the darkness flees
Through You my heart screams I AM FREE!!!
(listen HERE)
Man, even now I can't read these lyrics without tears in my eyes! Thank you Jesus for this FREEDOM! The hand motion when we sang FREEDOM was crossing our fists over our head and breaking them apart. What an incredible picture to see my girls do this knowing that Jesus can and will break the chains that are binding each one of them. 

We went over the Evangecube with them during our small group session so that they would be comfortable with sharing the gospel when we went into their community on Thursday. I had blessing times with Florence and Lexina to finish up our time for the day. 

We had Zambian pizza and "softies" (soft drinks) for dinner. It was great! They also had an auction after dinner to raise money for new school desks for the Tree of Life school. Some of the items included nalgenes, fleece jackets, chairs, and a case of Dr. Pepper which is hard to obtain in Zambia! The summer staff also volunteered to make one villas PBJ sandwiches for the rest of the week (8 sandwiches per person!). That one went for $800! :) And then of course the most famous item of the evening... a batch of homemade chocolate chip cookies. That one went for $4,500!! 

We headed back to our villa to make our PBJ sandwiches (since we didn't win that item in the auction!) and headed to bed. 


Monday, August 6, 2012

Zambia (Part 3)

MONDAY

We got up and had breakfast (cereal/oatmeal) and then had a villa meeting. We talked about what we were nervous about and our prayer requests for the day. Dad and Rob prayed for us and then we headed out to the bus.

Before we met our kids, Family Legacy wanted us to get a sense of where our kids would be coming from. So we had a tour of Lusaka. Our bus started in the slums of Garden. It was absolutely heart breaking. The children in the area began to follow us everywhere as we moved through the compound. They ran through the "streets" with no shoes and minimal clothing. Why was I born in America with so much and they were born here with almost nothing? This made for a very emotional start to my first day. 

                                               The kids following us
 A shop in Garden with walls lined with trash bags 
Some of the precious children in the compound (they loved seeing their picture)
     Sweet Gift (left) made fast friends with Bekah                           
         Mom and Dad talking to some of the kids.        Having to say good-bye to these sweet babies!

These are some videos I took as we were driving away...


After we left Garden, they took us to the extreme opposite side of the spectrum. Big expensive houses and government buildings right beside other slums. We also saw a local cemetery that had mounds and mounds of dirt everywhere for miles. Our tour guide said that when you go to a funeral there is not a lot of room and often times you have to stand on other graves. It was mind blowing. The average life expectancy in Zambia is only 38 years old. This is highly due to HIV and it is also why there are so many orphans. Zambia has a population of 12 million people. Half of the population is under the age of 16 and one million of those kids are orphans. Those are tough statistics! And that's just what they were before I came to Zambia and put faces and names to those numbers. My heart breaks for the orphans of Zambia and though I can't touch 1 million I can touch the one in front of me. And that's just what I did during my week there. 

We drove out to the Legacy Center to meet our kids. They were all lined up at the top of the hill waiting for us. When they saw the buses their cheers got louder and louder! I (of course) started to tear up. These kids don't know us but they were so excited that we were there! 

When we got off the bus we had to find our evangelist. That proved to be a little difficult with over 1,000 kids and over 200 Zambian partners! But I found Miriam and she brought me over to my girls. I had heard before I came that a lot of these kids would be the "walking dead"- they're alive but their spirit and emotions are dead. I had prepared myself for a group of girls who would be stand-offish and would need time to open up to me. Boy was I surprised when they all ran up to me and almost knocked me over from their hugs!! I just started to cry (big surprise!). I was finally meeting the 10 girls that I had been praying for for months! We sat down and got to know each other and then had lunch. Each one of my girls got 4 pieces of bread (nothing on them) and a mahyeo drink (corn-based protein drink). This was a feast to them and many were not able to finish it. They would save the leftovers for dinner. I wasn't even able to finish my second PBJ...how could I eat another sandwich in front of them??? My appetite just went away. 

We played a few games after lunch and then headed to the Legacy Center for our first group session. We found our number on the floor and then lined up. We sang a few songs and jumped and danced along. Then they played our "prayer" song. This year they chose Chris Tomlin's "Our God" to play while we prayed over each child in our group. I was a little nervous about this part. If you haven't figured it out yet... I'm pretty emotional normally, but then you ask me to pray over these precious children, OUT LOUD and no words are going to come out! Part of the song says, "Into the darkness you shine, out of the ashes we rise" what a powerful picture to describe these kids! I prayed that they would know our Father's love, that chains would be broken and that they would have the freedom that comes with knowing the Savior! 

Our first group session was about the Power in the Word of God. To have this power we must do 4 things:
1. HEAR it
2. UNDERSTAND it
3. BELIEVE it
4. SPEAK it

We also learned about the first part of the Armor of God (our theme for the week), the BELT OF TRUTH. Greer (founder of Family Legacy) told us to use the BELT against the lies of Satan. These kids are told that they are worthless, a problem, no one loves them and they have no value. All lies from the pit of hell. We then reviewed what we learned in our small group time and then I started blessing times. (I'll have to do a separate post for all of my girls blessing times)

We then handed out their apples for a snack and their "sweeties" (tootsie roll) and a sticker. We lined up and they loaded up on their buses to Chianda (their compound). They were all telling me "tiza oana mayilo!" which means "see you tomorrow!" I needed to work on my Nyanja phrases! :)

After all the kids left we got to talk about the day with our evangelist (Miriam) and apostle (Sharon). We also got to have praise and worship in Nyanja which is an incredible experience! They know how to praise Jesus! We headed back to the villas, ate dinner and headed to bed.

Friday, August 3, 2012

Zambia (Part 2)

Sunday we had church at the Legacy Center with the kids from Tree of Life. 


    

Tree of Life is Family Legacy's ministry for orphans who are so severely beaten or ill that they have gotten legal custody of them and removed them from their home. They provide a house (with 11 other kids) with a house mom, education, clothes, medical care, etc. This is near and dear to me and my family's hearts because I have a little brother there. 


Ackim was one of my dad's boys last year at Camp LIFE. He is HIV positive and was not getting the medical attention he needed. My parents started sponsoring him and he was moved to the Tree of Life Village. Ackim was at church Sunday morning and saw Bekah (trying to figure out if it was really her!). When she smiled at him he began looking for Dad. I was facing Ackim when he first saw him and I was overwhelmed with emotion.
His eyes doubled in size! (I'm glad I'm typing this because I am just crying remembering his face!) With a huge smile on his face he RAN over to my dad and gave him a huge hug. He had grown so much! We finally got to meet our little brother in person and not just look at his picture on the fridge. He looked at us like we were all crazy because we had all lost it at this point! His smile is just so contagious and I really do love him like he's my little brother!

After church, we had lunch and a chance to shop for some souvenirs. It was kind of like a craft show with all kinds of vendors set up on the soccer field. 

This was at one of the beautiful lookout points at the Summit. Most Zambians have never been able to see what their country looks like so it's the perfect place to show these kids where all they can have an influence!

Before we headed back to our villas, we got to meet and spend time with our Evangelist for the week. Miriam would be helping me during my one on one times with my girls (blessing times). She translated what I said and then what the girls said. She also helped me figure out the schedule each day. This was her third week to do Camp LIFE. 

We got back to our villas and got ready for dinner at the dining hall. After dinner we watched a movie on the gospel that I cried through. Goodness, I needed to get my emotions in check! I hadn't even met my girls!! :) We then had a service project to get ready for our first day of camp. Each of the kids coming to Camp LIFE would get a necklace with their name on it. So we cut the string for each of the necklaces and put them together in baggies. The kids would be putting their necklaces together while they waited for us to arrive. 

On our way back to the villa, we had to pick up a gallon of milk, peanut butter and a loaf of bread per person. Each night we all had to make EIGHT PBJ sandwiches. We made 2 for our apostle, 2 for our evangelist, 2 for a deacon and 2 for ourselves. I was glad I liked PBJ's! We all headed back to our rooms and tried to get as much rest as we could before our first day of camp!

I found the video we watched Sunday night on You Tube and posted it below. What an incredible picture and reminder of the freedom we have in knowing Christ!


July 2012

Summer is quickly coming to an end, but we are soaking up as much fun as we can!

Swimming in the backyard

Parker's crazy bedhead...he is TOTALLY my child!

Fun day at the zoo with Daddy

Daddy's new toy! Our family got bikes this summer and a trailer to pull the boys.

We've been playing outside....

 Parker's been practicing his raps... (he's saying "yo, yo, yo!" here)

And continues to be an incredibly messy eater!

We visited family...


 And worked out on the farm

We visited "May May's zoo" (Caldwell Zoo in Tyler)


Did some more swimming...


and lots of playing!



Mighty soldier boy!

We are ready for August! Taylor Reunion, school starting up and some big changes coming with this new school year! :)